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Dear Dish-It, I Get Jealous When She's With Other Guys

Dear Dish-It,

Ok, there's this girl - she's my best friend and I really like her as more than a friend. I've asked her out once, but she said she would have to see. I get jealous every time I see her with another guy. I don't want to get jealous, but I can't help it! I think I love her... what should I do?
i need a gf

Dear i need a gf,

Wow, you reek of crush! You obviously like this girl and you've made a couple of good moves - you got to know her and you asked her out. So far, you're doing everything right. Unfortunately, I can't tell ya why she hasn't said yes. Sometimes, people need time to think things through before they decide whether they want to date someone. And other times, they only like you as a friend and there's nothing they can do to change that. As for you getting all jealous, it's totally normal for you to get a little of the green-eyed monster when your hottie is hangin' with other guys, especially cuz your crush didn't say "yes" or "no" to datin' you. I think you need to ask her again if she wants to go out with you. If she doesn't give you a straight-up answer and gets all "we'll see" on you again, tell her you're not going to wait around - and make sure you don't - cuz she's not being fair to you or your feelings.

So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to Dish-It here. But 'member, if ya hang out in Chat with other Kidzworld members who know ya by your 'username', ya might wanna use a secret nickname when ya write in. That way no one'll ever know it's you. And, just in case ya don't know, Dish-It gets a lotta letters everyday, and she can't answer 'em all. So keep checkin' the column cuz she's prob'ly answering something very similar to your question while you're out doin' somethin' else. K? And Thanks! Ya keep her outta trouble. Oh! And if ya've got words of wisdom you wanna share,We'll dish 'em up, too.

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