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Dear Dish-It, My Boyfriend Acts Shady at School


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

Ok herez my problem, in school every one turns to me when they wanna get hooked up with someone, but now that everyone is either hooked up, or is asking me if I can hook them up, I have NO time for a crush or a b/f. Plus there are like no more guyz that I can have a crush on. For instance, last year this really nice girl wanted to get hooked up with my crush, she was one of my bff so of course I told her I would hook her up, but that was before I knew it was my crush. Anywayz, I ended hooking them up, and ended up having a broken heart. Now I'm all confused, what should I do? I mean, I'm so "INVOLVED" with everyone's relationships I cant have one of my own!! I NEED advice and quick!! Thanx.
unloved&confused


Dear unloved&confused,

Sounds like you have a big heart - being all nice-nice and settin' up everyone and their dog. But you're forgettin' one thing - you need to take care of you. I'm not talkin' getting all selfish and wearin' T shirts with the "It's all about me" logo - just keep in mind, you deserve something good too. Stop being Miss Matchmaker and start pursuing your own crushes. You've got it wrong when you sign your e "unloved&confused" - it sounds like you're loved by everyone. People only ask for advice or help (especially in love matters) from someone they trust and like. I have a feelin' that there are probably a lot of guys out there that would love your helpful, friendly attitude. You just gotta give yourself (and your love interests) some attention.


Dear Dish-It,

I am in 6th grade and I like this boy who is also in 6th grade. He knows I like him but he doesn't like me. I'm sooo... sad. Every time I see his face I get butterflies in my stomach.He drives me sooo.... crazy. I really want to go with him. What should I do?
Trinni


Dear Trinni,

Unfortunately, there is really zero you can do about this situation. The fact is, sometimes you're gonna crush on someone who just doesn't crush back. That's life. What you need to realize in this kinda situation is this: there is nothing wrong with ya. It's easy to think that it must be your fault that someone isn't into you, but it really isn't. You're just as fun, smart and pretty as you always were - this dude just wants something different. The reverse will happen one day too - where someone is diggin' you and you ain't diggin' them. When it does, remember how it felt in your case and try to let 'em down easy. As for the butterflies and stuff... find a new guy to get all queasy over. That's all you can do.


Dear Dish-It,

My boyfriend, that is in the 7th grade, calls me but acts shady at school. He won't talk to me at school but on the phone he tells me how much he admires me and all. Will you tell me what to do about this situation?
Roma


Dear Roma,

Tell your boy to grow up. Any dude who can't let on that he digs ya in front of his peeps, or in public at all, is being a baby. He isn't ready for a relationship and he's so not worthy of your time - let alone your love. You deserve better and you know it.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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moongemowl
moongemowl posted in Friends:
Okay, I've NEVER posted anything about my friends before, so bear with me. I've known that me and my BFF have the same crush since we met in 5th grade. But it always seems that my BFF is closer to him than I'll ever be. They went to 2 school dances together while I'm still in the friend zone with my crush. I pretend to not care but I really do care. I've never been in this situation before and don't know what to do about it. Should I tell my BFF how I feel or wait this whole thing out? Or even forget my crush being my crush and find a new crush? HELP!!!!!   :love :confused
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jordand08
Maybe that's the only line that needs to be said? You don't have to write down a whole paragraph explaining about how you feel. Sometimes, one word or one sentence can be enough. :p but I don't know. Maybe I have no clue what I'm talking about. :p
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jordand08
You'll have to remember, your parents love you, with that being said. If you feel like you can talk to them and they're reasonable, go ahead. But if you feel like waiting it's up to you. I think your family will support you, because they do love you. Maybe they'll be upset at first, but they'll come around, everyone does eventually. Is there anyone in your family that knows, like a cousin? Maybe you can ask for their opinion if you should tell your parents, and family. However, it's up to you. and remember, your parents care and love you.
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hugebear
hugebear posted in Family Issues:
You doesnt have to come out to your family until your ready and until they is ready too.  If you blurt it out it could be the shock.  You says that you think your Mums side of the family will be more supportive.  Has you got an Aunty or Uncle what you could discuss this with?  An adult member of your family what is most likely supportive  could probably give the best advises on how to tell your family and when and how and prepares you for how they will react. Good luck mate and takes your time :angel
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Mrawsomegamer
I think my mothers side of the family would be fine with it. It's my dad's side I'm most concerned about. My dad says some dreadfully terrible remarks about homosexual people. I think I'm not gunna tell him at all. Ever...  Either way. Thanks for the advice!
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