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Dear Dish-it,


So I am just really down on myself. I feel like no girl will ever like me. I am chubby, short and ugly. A lot of people think I am funny, but that's not going to help me get a girlfriend. What do I do?


Joe


Dear Joe,


Finding a girlfriend is not always based on looks. You’ve got a really good idea to use your sense of humour to attract girls… that’s a great start! Girls love guys that can make them laugh.


But let’s rewind. Your biggest problem is your confidence. You should know that confidence is the most important thing to attract girls. So let’s figure out how to build it into something beautiful so you won't even have to worry about your looks. The good news is that you are young and full of potential to do so much to build your confidence. Here are some things to boost your self esteem.


  • Get into some cool clothes
  • Make sure you’re hair is in style
  • Stay clean and try to smell good
  • Find something fun to practice and get really good at
  • Try cool sports like skateboarding or breakdancing
  • Become an artist
  • Play a musical instrument
  • Get some turntables and spin some records… become a DJ
  • Work with paints
  • Make cool things out of wood
  • Draw funny comics
  • Write your own jokes
  • Make funny videos
  • Become a volunteer and work in your community
  • Work with animals and people that need help
  • Help save the environment

When you find something you love to do, learn how to do it well. Your confidence will skyrocket and no matter what people say about your looks, you will attract girls because your passions will make your smile handsome… I guarantee it!


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Flamesword15
Flamesword15 posted in Friends:
Touche... I feel alone as well... I hate myself... People bully me for the stupidest of reasons, and it never ends! It's the reason I came on here in the first place. To have people that I can consider friends with a straight face (I have a few of those in real life but I'm not exactly a social butterfly. Well, I hate myself even more when I have to lie about not having friends, saying I have heaps of them, when that would be 35... I'm sorry if I offended anyone, but hey, I just assume I offend everyone I talk to... which is why I don't talk much...
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classicrockgirl71
Ask your dad why he won't let you go. If it's cost then offer to pay for it yourself if he won't pay and you don't want your friend to pay. If you don't have enough money right now ask your dad if you can pay him back over time by doing extra chores or something. Also calmly explain that you really like the band and really would like to see them live. Is your friend's mom or dad going with you? That might affect his decision if he's worried about your safety.
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brachio_hera
brachio_hera posted in Friends:
yeah. me too :| 
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gymnasts123
Everytime I ask my dad for something, its no. Yesterday I asked if I could go to the 5sos concert, he said no, and I asked why. He said there was no one to take me. My friend offered to take me, since she is going. I asked for money for the ticket, and he asked how much it was. I said it was $24, and he said that is too much and that he just bought me a phone yesterday. (my phone was an update, IT WAS 99 CENTS!) My friend then offered to pay for my ticket, and I told her I couldnt let her do it, she has bought me too many things already. WHat d0 i do? How do I convince my parents? It will be my first concert.
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disney princess
"Delancey" wrote:I'm sorry to hear this , but I think you should talk with your teachers. It's really annoying, and I guess you shouldn't care for whatever they say. You're pretty, you're beautiful in your own way. Um, I guess you should talk with teachers/adults about it and I know it'll be tough for you, but ignore what they say and just be you!  
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