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Dear Dish-It, I Used to Be a Tomboy

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Dear Dish-It,

Last year I had asked a guy to a dance when I was a major tomboy. This year I act like a real girl. I wear skirts and stuff, and the same guy I liked last year is flirting with me, talking to me and calling me. I still like him so how do I get him to ask me to the dance? I don't want to look like I'm desperate!
Beachgrl_42


Dear Beachgrl_42,

Okay, I'm not quite getting your whole story here... did the guy diss you last year when you asked him out? And, why did you change your look? There is nuthin' wrong with not being a girlie-girl." If this guy turned you down last year cuz you didn't wear skirts and plaster yourself with make-up, than he's not worth your time this year either. It might be flattering that he's showing an interest but a guy that's really worth it will like you for you and not what you wear. If you want to go to the dance with him, I'd let him make the first move. If he doesn't ask you, don't sit at home and sulk. There are plenty of boys who would love to go with you - so ask one of them!


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LAZY778

LAZY778 wrote:

I already am a tomboy.
commented: Fri Aug 29, 2014

DacshundLove

DacshundLove wrote:

@jane2820 why would u wanna be a tomboy? Ik I am but...yah
commented: Fri Aug 29, 2014

FireWolfRain

FireWolfRain wrote:

WANT TO BE A TOMBOY? I cry or complain whenever I wear shirts or make those band a loom...
commented: Fri Aug 29, 2014

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