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Dear Dish-It, Why Don't Girls Treat Me Right?


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

This is going to sound really weird but I think a GUY at school likes me, (I'm a guy.) I'm straight but this kid seems pretty gay and he's been staring at me all the time. When we went out in the hall to study for a quiz he was really nice to me and kept looking at me and smiling. He also looks at me and raises his eyebrows and tries to make me laugh and stuff. Please HELP! I don't want to tell him I'm straight because if he doesn't like me like that, it would be really embarrassing for him and me. Two girls in my class even saw him checking me out when I was leaning on the floor doing a project and you could see my boxers because my shirt was up a little and they said he was checking me out! HELP! NOW!
In a bind


Dear In a bind,

Ok, this is going to sound really weird but you've gotta chill out. It sounds like you're making a mountain outta a mole hill and someone is definitely going to be embarrassed if you keep carrying on like a fool, (most likely it will be you!) Just because some girls have confirmed your suspicions about this dude, doesn't mean you have to go blowing things out of proportion. If this guy does like you, you're not going to die. Instead of freaking out about the attention you are getting, be flattered by the obvious compliment. There is no need for you to go confronting this guy about his feelings. He will most likely never talk to you about them. And in the event that he does like you and makes a move, just say thanks, but I'm not interested. And both of you should be able to walk away with your dignity intact.


Dear Dish-It,

Ever since I can remember, I have had a girlfriend who always hurt me. I would understand if I was a jerk to them or treated them bad, but I am actually the best and sweetest guy a girl could ever have. But now, once again, I find myself with a girl that I really like but who hurts me all the time. Right now, as I write this, I am arguing with her. I really like her but it's like she doesn't care about me and she always hurts me. What should I do to change my love life disaster and all the pain I go through?
Lonely Pain


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    EndlessDream
    EndlessDream posted in Style:
    You need breakfast and lunch. Starving yourself, even if you aren't hungry, makes you loose energy to the point you could pass out from not eating. Keep your diet healthy. For breakfast, at least have yogurt, fruit, and juice. Drink at least 4 full glasses of water a day. Trim down on the snacks. Everyone has different bodies and build. You may just be large-boned. And that's not bad! That makes you stronger and higher ability to gain muscle. Loosing weight doesn't happen over night. It can take months. 
    reply about 7 hours
    Nekogirl101
    Nekogirl101 posted in Style:
    For years my parents would tell me I'm skinny but compared to other people, my waist was bigger and I would always hide it. Though it was obvious I weighed more, I've only been doing this for a week and I didn't ever tell anyone what I was doing until my parents found out. I would skip lunch and breakfast and say I was full. I only ate a big dinner every night. Once my parents found out, they said it was unhealthy and if I didn't  stop, I would develop an eating disorder. I obviously listened to them, but I've tried as best as I can so far. I have barely lost any weight from exercise and my parents won't let me go on a diet because I already 'eat healthy enough'. I want to lose weight without exercising being 3/4s of my lifestyle. I know, I'm a lazy idiot for saying all this.
    reply about 8 hours
    rainbowpoptart
    Yes, purely for the fact that you should not "hate" your sister (or anyone, for that matter).  I'm guessing by "get in trouble for her", you mean she does something wrong and the blame is all put on you? Yeah, little siblings tend to do that a lot. My brother did for the longest time, until my parents found out how much a liar he is. She, hopefully, will grow out of this eventually. Either that, or your parent[s]/guardian[s] will eventually see through her. You lose your friends to her? By this do you mean your friends want to hang out with her and they want you to tag along and you don't? Or do you mean your friends chose your sister over you? If it's the latter, then perhaps you shouldn't have ever referred to those people as friends. You'll find friends who'll prefer you over your sister, I'm sure of it. The only thing I can tell you to do is try to get along with your sister. Every group of siblings has their cats and dogs moment in life, but they grow out of it (most of the time; there are, of course, circumstances where it doesn't work out that way). Please be grateful for your sister, even if you two fight a lot. You never know how much you need something until it's gone.
    reply 1 day
    liddielover
    i hate my little sister because i get introuble for her and lose my friends to her.is that wrong?
    reply 1 day
    skylar245
    skylar245 posted in Friends:
    "rainbowpoptart" wrote: "skylar245" wrote: Teacher said to wait for the Bus Driver and the counselor, she just talks to me and doesn't tell The Princible Then maybe try telling the principal yourself, and you should also report that the driver, teacher, and counselor haven't done anything to help you. If that fails, tell another trusted adult, like your mother. I'm sure someone you're close to would do their best to get justice. This is a major problem and it's a shame no one's done anything to help. ​No one listens to me anyway but my friends
    reply 3 days