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Dear Dish-It, Why Don't Girls Treat Me Right?

Advice for teen boys about dating, relationships, girls and girlfriends.
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Dear Dish-It,

This is going to sound really weird but I think a GUY at school likes me, (I'm a guy.) I'm straight but this kid seems pretty gay and he's been staring at me all the time. When we went out in the hall to study for a quiz he was really nice to me and kept looking at me and smiling. He also looks at me and raises his eyebrows and tries to make me laugh and stuff. Please HELP! I don't want to tell him I'm straight because if he doesn't like me like that, it would be really embarrassing for him and me. Two girls in my class even saw him checking me out when I was leaning on the floor doing a project and you could see my boxers because my shirt was up a little and they said he was checking me out! HELP! NOW!
In a bind


Dear In a bind,

Ok, this is going to sound really weird but you've gotta chill out. It sounds like you're making a mountain outta a mole hill and someone is definitely going to be embarrassed if you keep carrying on like a fool, (most likely it will be you!) Just because some girls have confirmed your suspicions about this dude, doesn't mean you have to go blowing things out of proportion. If this guy does like you, you're not going to die. Instead of freaking out about the attention you are getting, be flattered by the obvious compliment. There is no need for you to go confronting this guy about his feelings. He will most likely never talk to you about them. And in the event that he does like you and makes a move, just say thanks, but I'm not interested. And both of you should be able to walk away with your dignity intact.


Dear Dish-It,

Ever since I can remember, I have had a girlfriend who always hurt me. I would understand if I was a jerk to them or treated them bad, but I am actually the best and sweetest guy a girl could ever have. But now, once again, I find myself with a girl that I really like but who hurts me all the time. Right now, as I write this, I am arguing with her. I really like her but it's like she doesn't care about me and she always hurts me. What should I do to change my love life disaster and all the pain I go through?
Lonely Pain


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    JennyD

    JennyD wrote:

    Woah there
    commented: Fri Jul 12, 2013

    libragirl2442

    libragirl2442 wrote:

    Aww thats to bad. I bet you really are a good guy but that one girl who will treat you ...
    commented: Mon Dec 27, 2010

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    Emma40 posted in Friends:
    So I like this guy in school. But I don't know if he likes me. How can I tell if he likes me? Does he like me?
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    Bunnoo posted in Friends:
    (There is no such thing as perfect.) Someone who loves you is perfect enough.
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    Peppy.San posted in Friends:
    "Emma40" wrote:So my BFF is dating this guy that is so hot. He is so sweet and so is she I don't want too get in the middle of thier relationship.AHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!What should I do?:love :love You don't want to cause drama, I think is what you're saying. I wouldn't worry about getting "in the middle of their relationship". If he makes a pass at someone else (you?) then that's HIS problem, not yours... and he probably wasn't worth your friends' time in the first place. Sorry, but you can't fix other people's stupid. And if it's you who's chasing, remember: friends are more important than some stupid/angsty short-term fling. Trust me-- I lost a few friends that way, and those relationships doesn't last very long afterwards. #TeenageWisdom
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    shae508
    shae508 posted in Friends:
    I rather you tell them the truth.....It's better to get help during times like this.. But if you wanna go down THAT road. (which includes lying, deep guilt, and possibly more scars...just a warning.) Here's how. 1. Hide them, wear bracelets long sleeves, whatever. just do it. 2. LIE. say you cut your self from glass of a REALLY bad paper cut...anything. 3. STOP!. Don't cut, easiest thing to do. At least let the scars fade... Like I said, I don't really want to help you with this stuff. TALK to someone. I cannot stress this enough. Good Luck....
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    daredog
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