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Dear Dish-It, My Girlfriend Moved


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

Hey, I have a problem. I liked this girl and she liked me, but she moved and met this other guy. She said she didn't like him but her friend at school said she does. She says she hates me (?) and will never talk to me again, but she keeps coming to parties that I'm at. Help please.
hyperkurai


Dear hyperkurai,

It sounds like you're relying on a lot of rumors about this crush of yours. How often have you sat down and talked with her one-on-one? If you really like this girl, why would you rely on what her friends say about her? If she was interested in you at some point, chances are she might still be interested in you now. But, you'll never know if you just sit back and let other peeps fill your head with rumors and speculation. There is a possibility that she's no longer crushin' on ya, but again, you'll never know unless you ask. Next time you and your crush are at the same party or hanging with friends, take her aside and find out what's on her mind. She might simply be waiting for you to make your move. Good Luck!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    EndlessDream
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    rainbowpoptart
    Yes, purely for the fact that you should not "hate" your sister (or anyone, for that matter).  I'm guessing by "get in trouble for her", you mean she does something wrong and the blame is all put on you? Yeah, little siblings tend to do that a lot. My brother did for the longest time, until my parents found out how much a liar he is. She, hopefully, will grow out of this eventually. Either that, or your parent[s]/guardian[s] will eventually see through her. You lose your friends to her? By this do you mean your friends want to hang out with her and they want you to tag along and you don't? Or do you mean your friends chose your sister over you? If it's the latter, then perhaps you shouldn't have ever referred to those people as friends. You'll find friends who'll prefer you over your sister, I'm sure of it. The only thing I can tell you to do is try to get along with your sister. Every group of siblings has their cats and dogs moment in life, but they grow out of it (most of the time; there are, of course, circumstances where it doesn't work out that way). Please be grateful for your sister, even if you two fight a lot. You never know how much you need something until it's gone.
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    liddielover
    i hate my little sister because i get introuble for her and lose my friends to her.is that wrong?
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    skylar245
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