Dear Dish-It, My Girlfriend Moved

Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".

Dear Dish-It,

Hey, I have a problem. I liked this girl and she liked me, but she moved and met this other guy. She said she didn't like him but her friend at school said she does. She says she hates me (?) and will never talk to me again, but she keeps coming to parties that I'm at. Help please.

Dear hyperkurai,

It sounds like you're relying on a lot of rumors about this crush of yours. How often have you sat down and talked with her one-on-one? If you really like this girl, why would you rely on what her friends say about her? If she was interested in you at some point, chances are she might still be interested in you now. But, you'll never know if you just sit back and let other peeps fill your head with rumors and speculation. There is a possibility that she's no longer crushin' on ya, but again, you'll never know unless you ask. Next time you and your crush are at the same party or hanging with friends, take her aside and find out what's on her mind. She might simply be waiting for you to make your move. Good Luck!

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