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Dear Dish-It, How Do I Stop Being a Hypocrite?

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Dear Dish-It,

I am a hypocrite. Let's just say this - I got invited to "Annas's" party. I went and I had a good time. But the thing is, with "Anna", I always talk bad about "Faye". And this time, I talked bad about "Anna" with "Faye". I feel really bad, but I am still friends with both of them! What should I do to stop being a hypocrite? I really do not try to be mean!
Love ya lots.
* secret luvr *

Dear * secret luvr *,

So far you've been lucky that no one has spilled the beans about your back-stabbing. But, rest assured that if you keep up the trash talking, you won't just lose one of your friends, you'll lose both. No one likes a gossip, especially when you don't seem to have a reason for it. Both of these girls are apparently your friends, so if you value their friendship at all, you will zip those loose lips of yours. There's really just one very simple way of not being a hypocrite, and that's to just stop being one. Talking about your friends behind their back is not a disease that you can get medication for - you just have to have the willpower to be a better person.

So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .

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