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Sindy's Blog - November 18, 2004

November 18, 2004

I totally do not understand people sometimes! A.J. is acting way weird lately - being really snappy with me and stuff. I finally asked her what her problem was and she said its cuz I've haven't been paying enough attention to her! Can you believe that?

Okay, so I'm aware that I've been totally caught up with the play and stuff and we haven't been hanging out as much as we did this summer, but it's not cuz I don't wanna be her friend or anything. It's just that I've pretty much been going to school and then going straight to the drama room so I can work on the play for a few hours after classes are over.

I don't want to make her mad or upset but I honestly don't know when I'll have time for one on one A.J. time in the near future. I suggested that she come by and chill in the drama room one day after school with me, Kaelin and Anna but she freaked when I suggested it! Said she wasn't interested in hanging with my friends - and that maybe she just needed to distance herself from me altogether. How harsh is that?

Yeah, so I'm kind of bummed but I don't know what to do. I'm gonna continue to try to include her in things, but if she's going to be so demanding than maybe it's best we go our separate ways. It just sucks so much! I absolutely hate fighting with my friends.

Any of you have any ? Am I being a total jerk by not spending as much time with A.J.? What can I do to make things better? Let me know...

Peace Out,

Sindy

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    Who Do You Think is Right - Sindy or A.J.?

    • A.J. is totally right. Sindy needs to start paying more attention to her.
    • Sindy is right - A.J. is way outta line.
    • I think they're both being stubborn.

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    -Gwen9-- posted in Friends:
    "jordand08" wrote:Thank you.You're welcome. :)
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    donteatcarrots
    talk to the person you're closest too. yes, you said you don't get close with people, but there's probably one person who you speak to more often than others- talk to that person.
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    donteatcarrots
    donteatcarrots posted in Friends:
    Don't worry too much- it's only your first relationship- but I'd sit down with him at one point, and discuss what makes you uncomfortable, eg; if you know what I mean...
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    donteatcarrots posted in Friends:
    Probably sound a little stereotypical, but the majority of boys don't really act like that... Ask him :p
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    kittenkid
    First: WHATEVER YOU DO, DON'T KILL YOUSELF! When you get past this you'll be glad. Well, this is just my opinion, but I think you should first find someone, anyone, even if you don't trust them, if there're your parents talk to them about it. I bet a bunch of people have already told you this but there're right. Before you walk up to them, write down what you're going to say and then think of a few questions they might ask and write down the answers to them. Remember to tell them that it might take you a minute to think of an answer. Before you answer, think of the exact words you will say  before you say anything, and think in your mind about it. Think about wether it is a lie or not before you say it. If it gets out of you mouth before you realize it is a lie, don't be afraid to say so and just say the truth. Also, just try to find something you like to do that will take your mind off everything. If you really can't think of anything, try just practicing saying your feelings to yourself, or a pillow or something.  Hope this helps!
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