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Dear Dish-It, Nobody Asked Me to Dance!

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Dear Dish-It,

I just recently got back from my very first middle school dance, and you know what? Nobody danced with me! Every single one of my friends, whether they wore a cute dress or not, got asked to dance except me! I was just walking around while my friends were off dancing with someone. I came home feeling sorry for myself and broken-hearted. I know somebody must like me, but maybe they just haven't collected the courage to tell me.
IwuvSD


Dear IwuvSD,

It takes a lot of courage, especially for guys in middle school and high school, to ask girls to dance cuz they're just as scared of rejection as you are! So don't be so hard on yourself that you didn't get to dance this time around cuz there's definitely someone for everyone, including you. He may not come along right this second but chances are, there's someone crushin' on you - he's just a bit shy! If there's someone in particular that you have your heart set on, why not ask them to dance next time? There's no rule that girls can't be the first one to make the move! Your friends may be dancing now, but in the long run, you'll find that special someone to dance the night away with too!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    Trillest Layaa
    Forreall Though Haha ; Imma Get A Day When i See Him Again He Gone Ask Me Out And Imma ...
    commented: Sat Feb 23, 2013

    GROUND LOW FLOW
    LOL LIKE U SAID THO HE WANTED THE D HAHAH
    commented: Sat Feb 23, 2013

    Trillest Layaa
    Haha Forreal ; But I Was Shocked When He Turned Me Down -_-
    commented: Sat Feb 23, 2013

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    My mom is about a 6.  She makes me get stuff done (though I don't always), but she still lets me do what I want.  She's super awesome. My dad and step-mom, however, are ultra-super-mega strict to a 10.  They won't even go on YouTube, much less get an account.  They know I have an account, but they can't stop me, since they live in a different state.  If they found out I am bi, they would disown me and burn me at the stake like a Salem witch.
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