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Dear Dish-It, My BFF Always Likes the Guys I Like

Dear Dish-It,

I have this really great best friend. Every time I tell her I like someone, she says she likes him too. This has happened many times and I always step back so she could have the guy and so I could be a good friend. What I wanna know is, am I being a good friend?
LATiN_GURL


Dear LATiN_GURL,

You're not just being a good friend... you're being a total pushover. Why else would you step back and let your best friend have him... er, all of them? She's walking all over you and stealing all of your crushes and potential boyfriends because you're letting her! You need to speak up for yourself and let her know you're not happy with what's going down. Chances are, she already realizes what she's doing is wrong, but is doing it anyway cuz you seem like you're fine with it.


As for your BFF, she isn't a great best friend if she's moving in on every guy you like. I know lots of best friends who have similar tastes in guys, so liking the same guy could happen once or twice. But if it happens more often than you change your socks, then you need to start questioning your friendship.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    EndlessDream
    Just tell him you're not feeling well and ask him nicely to leave you alone.
    reply about 23 hours
    Hanakor
    Hanakor posted in Family Issues:
    Yes girls can be exactly as annoying, you're right it depends on the person. And I respect your opinion. But you're not always right neither am I. But please keep your comments to yourself and if I bother you that much, ignore me ;) not hard boo 
    reply about 24 hours
    inkdeath
    inkdeath posted in Family Issues:
    "Hanakor" wrote:I state MY OPINION. You may have a different one but I don't think I'm being sexist at all. Boys are annoying between ages. You clearly havent experienced this? Well if you're getting sick of it, just ignore my OWN OPINIONS. Thanks! Well, your opinions suck. And no, boys are not always annoying between ages. Girls can be just as annoying! As you seemed to prove by your comments.  You sound like one of those idiotic feminists.
    reply about 24 hours
    Hanakor
    Hanakor posted in Family Issues:
    Her brother clearly hasn't reached the Matureity stage yet so of course he's gonna act and mess around
    reply about 24 hours
    Hanakor
    Hanakor posted in Family Issues:
    I state MY OPINION. You may have a different one but I don't think I'm being sexist at all. Boys are annoying between ages. You clearly havent experienced this? Well if you're getting sick of it, just ignore my OWN OPINIONS. Thanks! 
    reply about 24 hours