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The Dangers of Cutting

Cutting is a serious problem that needs to be addressed so if you have a cutting problem, or know someone who does, get the info and help you need right here.

Cutting - What Is Cutting?

Cutting is a type of self-injury that involves cutting the skin of your arms, legs, abdomen, or some other body part with a sharp object. When cuts heal, they can leave scars, so people will usually wear long-sleeved tops to cover them up.

Why Do People Cut?

There isn't one single reason for why people cut, but most people who cut aren't trying to commit suicide. Some people cut to cope with stressful stuff that's going on in their lives, like when parents get divorced or a relationship ends, while others may cut to feel a sense of relief from anger, shame, or frustration. Cutting could also be a symptom of depression, an eating disorder, emotional abuse, or low self-esteem.

Why Is Cutting Dangerous?

It's hard to judge the depth of a cut. If you accidentally cut too deep, you could lose a lot of blood and may even require stitches. Cuts can also lead to infections if you're using a cutting instrument that's not clean. As well, cutting can become a habit, where you feel like you need to do it all the time.

How Is Cutting Treated?

Cutting may provide temporary relief, but there are other, much healthier ways to deal with the bad stuff that's going down in your life. Physical activity will help balance your emotions, so join a sports team at school and get plenty of exercise. Getting in touch with your creative side can also help you express yourself in a positive way, so pick up a pencil and start sketchin' away or take an art class like painting or sculpting. More importantly, make an appointment to see your doctor right away to figure out any underlying reasons as to why you're cutting. It's also a good idea to have a heart-to-heart talk with your parents, teacher, school counselor, or another trusted adult since admitting you have a cutting problem is the hardest, but one of the most important steps to overcoming it.

  • For more help or info on cutting, check out S.A.F.E. Alternatives (Self-Abuse Finally Ends) at www.selfinjury.com, or call their toll-free line at 1-800-DONT-CUT (1-800-366-8288).
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"SatanslilDemon" wrote: Ok so I have a dilemma. I really, and I mean really like this guy. He's considerate of my mental wellbeing and health, plus he's really funny and sweet. He's respectful, loyal, and his hugs are the best ever(he's like a foot and 4 inches taller than me). the dilemma is, he'stwentyandI'mfifteenturningsixteensoon.... I'm not gonna even ask about dating him until i'm sixteen but I've called him in total anxiety attack crying my eyes out and he calmed me down and made me laugh, and I invited him to come see a choir performance so he spent the day with me... My mom ships us... but I'm a little worried because of the age difference  and experience difference and just, I don't want to miss the chance of being with him because of it. ​  any advice??? It's really nice that your mother supports it, that always helps!! I'm glad that your family enjoys his company as well. Being 16 while he's 20 is alright. It's a slight odd age gap. But, I think as long as you both are ready, it's alright. Make sure you're mature and safe with your choices though. Personally, I think you should wait until you're closer to at least, 17. But, as long as you two are smart about what you're doing, it should be alright when it come around to it.
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fitta
"Shygirl15" wrote:I really like this boy in my second period class but i dont know how to tell him because he knows that im transgender do whatever makes you feel comfortable or just wing it and tell him and if he tells you something because you're trans forget about him! He doesn't deserve you. But it's totally okay if you want to play it safe and not go up to him. You do you. :3 
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"SatanslilDemon" wrote: Ok so I have a dilemma. I really, and I mean really like this guy. He's considerate of my mental wellbeing and health, plus he's really funny and sweet. He's respectful, loyal, and his hugs are the best ever(he's like a foot and 4 inches taller than me). the dilemma is, he'stwentyandI'mfifteenturningsixteensoon.... I'm not gonna even ask about dating him until i'm sixteen but I've called him in total anxiety attack crying my eyes out and he calmed me down and made me laugh, and I invited him to come see a choir performance so he spent the day with me... My mom ships us... but I'm a little worried because of the age difference  and experience difference and just, I don't want to miss the chance of being with him because of it. ​  any advice??? i suggest you wait i mean you are going to be 16 that's way too young to be dating someone who is 4/5 years older than you,no? You can still talk to him when it comes to your anxiety attacks and all of that because I have those too every night so I know how it feels, but maybe you should wait. But at the end of the day it's your decision I'm just here to give advice 
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SatanslilDemon
Ok so I have a dilemma. I really, and I mean really like this guy. He's considerate of my mental wellbeing and health, plus he's really funny and sweet. He's respectful, loyal, and his hugs are the best ever(he's like a foot and 4 inches taller than me). the dilemma is, he'stwentyandI'mfifteenturningsixteensoon.... I'm not gonna even ask about dating him until i'm sixteen but I've called him in total anxiety attack crying my eyes out and he calmed me down and made me laugh, and I invited him to come see a choir performance so he spent the day with me... My mom ships us... but I'm a little worried because of the age difference  and experience difference and just, I don't want to miss the chance of being with him because of it. ​  any advice???
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SmartSunnyShadow
I feel like that too. My best friend will always hang out with her 'new friends' that I have a really bad opinion about. My friend will treat me rudely all the time and sometimes make fun of me with her friends. But, when I needed her the most in my life, she was there for me, and I told her how I felt. She says that she just wants to hang out with more people and apologized, people can be a little teasy at times.  Also, after seeing each other for a long time, people make new friends and start hanging out with them more, it doesn't mean that she doesn't like you.  This may be different for you, but just tell her about it, she will have to know you feelings at one point.  Hope I helped you. 
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