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Dear Dish-It, My Life Is Perfect


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

I have a perfect life - I'm in the most perfect relationship ever with the most beautiful girl I've ever met. There are no problems. My family is great and there are no problems there. I have a great set of friends too. Everything seems to be going fine but it feels like there is something missing. What could it be? It is very serious. It alters my mood drastically. One moment I can be happy as ever and the next I will be crying. This problem often brings me to tears. What should I do?
parasite


Dear parasite,

While you say that your life is perfect, crying all the time for no apparent reason is not healthy or normal. Even if it's not glaringly obvious what's happening with your body, there is definitely something about your life that is causing you to feel the way you are. Have you thought about talking to a counselor or your family doctor about what you are going through? You have to remember that you are in one of the most awkward phases of life, when there are a ton of different hormones raging through your body. Something simple like a regular exercise routine or a change in diet could drastically change the way you feel. Whatever it is, your doctor is bound to know of some way to make you feel better. So, make an appointment to see your doctor ASAP so you can get back to enjoying that perfect life of yours. Good Luck!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    bffeaea
    bffeaea posted in Friends:
    I don't know you and I'm not exactly sure how you act, but being friendly is definitely the way to go. Don't change yourself for ANYBODY. Especially someone who you don't need to impress. Speaking of impressing, don't try, do. If you are telling a story and that happens to impress them than that's great! But don't go out of your way to try to make yourself look awesome because I'm sure you already are. Be yourself. But the most important thug now you can do is not try to make a million friends. Because personally I would rather have one AWESOME friend than a million ok friends. I hope this helped. :)
    reply about 10 hours
    HoneyHamstern
    HoneyHamstern posted in Friends:
    Be yourself and most important of all, be kind. You will get great friends by doing so. Being popular doesn't always mean being nice; sometimes people tend to be rude and bossy to be "popular" and that isn't good. But if you participate or even start a group at school, at the library or somewhere important in the community (community service like the Rotary Club is a good way to start for kids and teens) can be a great way to meet friends and share your happiness.
    reply about 11 hours
    esthery27
    "f3rr3tgal" wrote:dear dish-it,        I absolutely love my family but... my dad has these headaches  where if they are really bad i can not say anything right he will get really mad. i don't know what to do i really hate being yelled at by my  dad and i love him soo much !!!! what do i do?  [s:sm3/1jvp]                                                       thanks,                                                            f3rr3tgal Tell him that you love him and you understand he's suffering but you really don't like it when he yells at you. You can write a note or a card to him. I'm sure he'll understand. And of course if needed see a doctor so that he'll know what to do to deal with those headaches.
    reply about 11 hours
    esthery27
    esthery27 posted in Friends:
    You won't want to be, it's exhausting. Just be happy the way you are and don't care about what others think or say about you.
    reply about 12 hours
    GiddyUpGecko
    GiddyUpGecko posted in Friends:
    What if you just aren't populr, and you want to be???  :(
    reply 1 day