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Dear Dish-It, My Life Is Perfect


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Dear Dish-It,

I have a perfect life - I'm in the most perfect relationship ever with the most beautiful girl I've ever met. There are no problems. My family is great and there are no problems there. I have a great set of friends too. Everything seems to be going fine but it feels like there is something missing. What could it be? It is very serious. It alters my mood drastically. One moment I can be happy as ever and the next I will be crying. This problem often brings me to tears. What should I do?
parasite


Dear parasite,

While you say that your life is perfect, crying all the time for no apparent reason is not healthy or normal. Even if it's not glaringly obvious what's happening with your body, there is definitely something about your life that is causing you to feel the way you are. Have you thought about talking to a counselor or your family doctor about what you are going through? You have to remember that you are in one of the most awkward phases of life, when there are a ton of different hormones raging through your body. Something simple like a regular exercise routine or a change in diet could drastically change the way you feel. Whatever it is, your doctor is bound to know of some way to make you feel better. So, make an appointment to see your doctor ASAP so you can get back to enjoying that perfect life of yours. Good Luck!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    Lynx_The_Lynx
    Lynx_The_Lynx posted in Friends:
    Okay, since I'm a girl and have helped many of my guy friends with this (even though I think they r too young for this but meh whatever), I can give you some advice.  1) Don't be mean or nice. You have to be yourself. Don't be nasty to her to get her to like you (it won't work), nor should you be Mr Nice Guy. Don't be there to carry her bag for her just yet.  2) If you want her attention, be creative. Writing a song is a good idea, but don't dedicate it to her. Just pretend you're aiming it at the general female population of your class. You can tell her that it's for her later, when she's into you. 3) Find out what she likes. Does she play instruments? Does she do sports? Does she fangirl over stuff? Does she play video games? Find out and DISCREETLY get her to know that you like it too, if you do of course. This is what worked for one of my friends: 1) Stay low until the perfect moment. If she falls over, come over and help her up, smile at her and blow her away with your charms, and then proceed to say hi and ask for her name as if you don't know her. It is creepy when a random guy knows your name and says it to you.... it just is idk. Walk away without looking back. This will make her curious for this stranger who helped her up. Do this for whatever situation. BUT JUST ONCE. DO NOT REPEAT. 2) If this happens again (she falls over etc), be sure to be really obvious that you're not going to help her up. Walk by without sparing a single glance. She will be reminded of you and wonder why didn't you help her. This is good - you want her to think of you. 3) Do something sweet for her. For example, if she likes a particular drink or cheap snack, buy it for her and walk up to her. Give it to her, but say something like "Hey _________! Here you go. I accidentally bought the wrong flavour and didn't want to throw it away. Don't worry - I didn't open it. Do you want it?" She should say yes, and ask for your name to say thank you. That's when you tell her. 4) Start to wave to her in the hallways and say hi sometimes. Don't do this too much though. Sometimes, if she waves first, ignore her. This should make her want your attention more. 5) Do something sweet again (like the song), but aim it not directly towards her (like I already said before - aim it towards girls in general). If you want some more, tell me! I hope this helped, but it might not - depends on what kind of girl she is.
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