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Dear Dish-It, How Do I Win Her Back?

Dear Dish-It,

Your site is great, hope you can help me, man. I dated this girl last year for about one month. I first met her at school, and a week later we were dating. She was my first GF. We broke up after a month because I was being so protective - I did not trust her with her friends and stuff, especially her guy friends. But I still love her. It has been like half a year now and I still love her so much but she doesn't care. She doesn't talk to me or anything. Is there anyway I can get her back?
dboy_dot_hitman


Dear dboy_dot_hitman,

It's cool that you realize the error of your ways. Jealousy is most definitely not a quality most girls dig. And while you have come to this realization now, that doesn't necessarily mean your ex is going to forgive your bad behavior. Clearly she was hurt by the things you did and said - so much in fact, she has decided never to speak to you again. Winning her back is not going to be a walk in the park. If you're serious about how much you care about her, you're going to have to be patient. Stick to little gestures of kindness to start. Say hello to her in the halls, smile, ask her how she's doing. Whatever you do, don't go crazy and smother her with attention cuz that's what got you into trouble in the first place. If the daily hall greeting seems to be successful (for example, she hasn't thrown water in your face or called the hall monitor to escort you to the principal's office), then move onto phase B - asking her to hang out sometime. This could take a while and will definitely try your patience but if you're serious, then she's probably worth all that time and energy! Good Luck.


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