I totally agree. :"( my dad hates me. my mom is a single parent and she goes to school has a job AND STILL CAN TAKE CARE OF HER KIDS. MY MOM IS a SURVIVOR! my mom loves me with all her heart,before my dad left he said i will neve love you, spit in my face and moms face and left and broke some of our stuff. i know how you feel im 11 too....... but i think its none of our buissness to be up in grown up situations.....

"George Weasley " wrote:i just came to say there are a lot of different reasons why someone might cut, and different alternatives work for different people. some people need to feel the pain in order to feel more connected to their body--it's a weird feeling you can get with depression and other mental illnesses.  a solution for that could be squeezing an ice cube in your hand, as hard as you can, until it melts. it really hurts, but doesn't cause any lasting damage. some people do it because they're anxious or afraid, and the familiarity of a routine helps them feel better, so they might need to do their whole cutting routine minus the cutting. so they get out their supplies, set everything up, and then bandage themselves and put it all away. some people do it because of anger or frustration, and to help with that, they can tear paper or scribble on photos. the marker alternative can help some people, but it's not a fix-all alternative. This is true, and it may not help everyone, but at least they'll give it a shot. It's for people not to harm themselves, and yes, there are other ways not to cut, or anything like that, but here's one solution out of many.

i just came to say there are a lot of different reasons why someone might cut, and different alternatives work for different people. some people need to feel the pain in order to feel more connected to their body--it's a weird feeling you can get with depression and other mental illnesses.  a solution for that could be squeezing an ice cube in your hand, as hard as you can, until it melts. it really hurts, but doesn't cause any lasting damage. some people do it because they're anxious or afraid, and the familiarity of a routine helps them feel better, so they might need to do their whole cutting routine minus the cutting. so they get out their supplies, set everything up, and then bandage themselves and put it all away. some people do it because of anger or frustration, and to help with that, they can tear paper or scribble on photos. the marker alternative can help some people, but it's not a fix-all alternative.

Your welcome  and mkay xD