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Dear Dish-It, All My Friends Are Anti-Boys

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Dear Dish-It,

All my friends are all anti-boys and I really like this guy. But, well... my pals don't want anything to do with boys, but I REALLY want a BF!!! Any advice??

chicky_babe313


Dear chicky_babe313,

So your buds aren't into boys, but you are. Hmmm... it's a bit of a tough situation, but you shouldn't fall to peer pressure. Just cuz your group of friends isn't into boyfriends yet doesn't mean you have to pretend you don't have a crush on that certain hottie. Just tell 'em straight out that you like this guy and then get to know him. Maybe you'll go out, maybe you won't - but you'll never know unless you try. If your friends think it's "gross" or think you're crazy, just shrug and don't bring it up with them. They'll probably understand sooner or later when they get into the stage of crushin' on boys and wanting to date. But until that time comes, have fun crushin' and getting to know him! And if ya need someone to talk about it with, ask your sister or cousin... or write back to me!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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