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Dear Dish-It, She Doesn't Know How to Kiss


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

There's this girl who I like and she likes me. We flirt and all and do everything together and I feel like she could be the one. We see each other every day. When I asked her out, she said no. Then later I found out she said no because she doesn't know how to kiss. But I still like her. I wanna know what's the best way to win her heart over?
RichRich17


Dear RichRich17,

Hang in there. From what you've dished to me, this girl is crazy about you. But sometimes, nerves can make someone too scared to go for it. Don't push her - just keep bein' her pal and flirtin' away, and let her know you're still interested and are willing to take it slow-mo. Sooner or later, she'll feel comfortable enough to date you... and then everything else, from hand holding to first kisses, will just fall into place.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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