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Dear Dish-It, She Doesn't Know How to Kiss

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Dear Dish-It,

There's this girl who I like and she likes me. We flirt and all and do everything together and I feel like she could be the one. We see each other every day. When I asked her out, she said no. Then later I found out she said no because she doesn't know how to kiss. But I still like her. I wanna know what's the best way to win her heart over?
RichRich17


Dear RichRich17,

Hang in there. From what you've dished to me, this girl is crazy about you. But sometimes, nerves can make someone too scared to go for it. Don't push her - just keep bein' her pal and flirtin' away, and let her know you're still interested and are willing to take it slow-mo. Sooner or later, she'll feel comfortable enough to date you... and then everything else, from hand holding to first kisses, will just fall into place.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    TakeMeForever

    TakeMeForever wrote:

    Lol thats so cute ^^
    commented: Wed Jul 16, 2014

    Skipley

    Skipley wrote:

    I'm glad he still likes her even though she doesn't know how to kiss.
    commented: Wed Jul 09, 2014

    Dino_blue

    Dino_blue wrote:

    It's not all about ####### plus it's easy just let the guy pull you close and from ther...
    commented: Fri Mar 21, 2014

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    InternetOwl
    What part of it are you scared of? Is it eating in public and around other people, or just eating in general?  What it might be, if it's eating in public you don't like, is social anxiety, or social phobia. You should ask your doctor to check, because if it is, they can offer you ways to help. For instance, they might recommend therapists or group sessions to help ease your fear.  Even if it's just a phobia or, in unlikelier circumstances, an eating disorder, you should still go to your doctor or a therapist so you can try to overcome it. Try doing things that calm you down before these situations as well, like exercise, reading or listening to music (I'm not sure what relaxes you but sometimes these help). Also, you should try to slowly get used to the situations. So don't force yourself to eat straight away when you're out, but slowly start doing so whenever your comfortable with doing so. Unlike your mum wants, you can't just "stop" being scared because that's not how it works.  But right now, please don't force yourself into any of these situations. It's not good for your mental health to be forced to face a phobia of yours often. 
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    Dear Dish-It, Within the last few years I have felt a bit sick and shaky when we go out to eat. It's not so bad when it's a carvery lunch or something at a pub, but settling down for a chocolate brownie and a milkshake shakes me up. Don't get me wrong, I love going out with Mum, but it's just sitting down and taking a bite. I want to chuck it in the bin. I love eating brownies and stuff at home and I'm pretty healthy. But I refuse to go to the town before lunch in fear. Mum told me I got to stop this or I'm going to develop a terrible phobia.  Please help! ElfyKathy, worried
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    NianiNaturallyNerdy3
    She isn't jealous she is just dissappointed that you chose to get lessons when she did to get better . She had to get better to catch up to you so you can enjoyher as your best friend. Then you went ahead and got lessons as if you needed them. She is just upset that you showed off a talent that she didn't have. And she tried to get better to impress you but you got better as well. Which kept her at the stage she will always be at my best friend sings way betyer than me but I try. 
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    It may be hard but break it down to them we aren't friends but we can be associates. It may leave them a bit dissappointed but tell them we aren't in the same category to be as close as friends. 
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