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Dear Dish-It, Guys Never Ask Me Out


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Dear Dish-It,

Guys keep looking at me and they smile and talk to me and all. But it seems like they never ask me out or anything and sometimes they are really mean to me. And when a guy looks at you, what should you do, because I don't know what to do when they smile at me or look at me? How do I get guys to pay attention to me more?
aznchick24


Dear aznchick24,

Girl, I bet you're a total hottie. There are a lot of hot girls at my school, but the weird thing is they don't get too many dates. And sometimes, they have no love life at all. Why? Because they're so hot and beautiful that they scare away all the boys! And if the boys aren't scared, they think you're already taken or too busy, and they just don't bother because they think they don't have a shot at such a hottie. The good news is, boys get bolder as they get older. Those dates will come and pretty soon, your social calendar will be packed with dates!


As for how to act when a guy is checking you out, just act like yourself. When someone smiles at you, you smile back, right? Well, the same rules apply here too. Just tune into the signals and meet a smile with a smile, a "what's up?" with a "what's up... " And as for getting guys to pay more attention to you, it sounds like you've already got that covered.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to Dish-It here. Send all of your questions to deardish@kidzworld.com But 'member, if ya hang out in Chat with other Kidzworld members who know ya by your 'username', ya might wanna use a secret nickname when ya write in. That way no one'll ever know it's you. And, just in case ya don't know, Dish-It gets a lotta letters everyday, and she can't answer 'em all. So keep checkin' the column cuz she's prob'ly answerin' somethin' very similar to your question while you're out doin' somethin' else. K? And Thanks! Ya keep her outta trouble. Oh! And if ya've got words of wisdom you wanna share,We'll dish 'em up, too.


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HannahG
HannahG posted in Family Issues:
I agree with the person above ## #### ## # ##### ## # ##### ###### you should talk to a counselor or go to the police about the men.
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Hannah728
Hannah728 posted in Friends:
yes a lot
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lilymouse385
lilymouse385 posted in Friends:
In theory no one is perfect but.... The perfect friend will understand you even if you do get into fights and will stand up for you always And will stick by your side forever.
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Tati-00
Tati-00 posted in Family Issues:
The only advice I can tell you is to tell a School Counselor or Teacher. As for the Men I would report them to the Police.
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cool36
cool36 posted in Family Issues:
my mom punches me 4 no reason . And there r taking me away but i do not wanna go .Their making me go with my aunt but  she is alot worse she brings men we do not even know i the house and they  hurt me and try 2 get me in bed with them and she is always #####. What do I do? I am only 9 . Help please .  :( :( :( :( :( :( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( =( :sad :sad :sad :sad :sad 
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