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Dear Dish-It, Guys Never Ask Me Out


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl when I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

Guys keep looking at me and they smile and talk to me and all. But it seems like they never ask me out or anything and sometimes they are really mean to me. And when a guy looks at you, what should you do, because I don't know what to do when they smile at me or look at me? How do I get guys to pay attention to me more?
aznchick24


Dear aznchick24,

Girl, I bet you're a total hottie. There are a lot of hot girls at my school, but the weird thing is they don't get too many dates. And sometimes, they have no love life at all. Why? Because they're so hot and beautiful that they scare away all the boys! And if the boys aren't scared, they think you're already taken or too busy, and they just don't bother because they think they don't have a shot at such a hottie. The good news is, boys get bolder as they get older. Those dates will come and pretty soon, your social calendar will be packed with dates!


As for how to act when a guy is checking you out, just act like yourself. When someone smiles at you, you smile back, right? Well, the same rules apply here too. Just tune into the signals and meet a smile with a smile, a "what's up?" with a "what's up... " And as for getting guys to pay more attention to you, it sounds like you've already got that covered.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to Dish-It here. Send all of your questions to deardish@kidzworld.com But 'member, if ya hang out in Chat with other Kidzworld members who know ya by your 'username', ya might wanna use a secret nickname when ya write in. That way no one'll ever know it's you. And, just in case ya don't know, Dish-It gets a lotta letters everyday, and she can't answer 'em all. So keep checkin' the column cuz she's prob'ly answerin' somethin' very similar to your question while you're out doin' somethin' else. K? And Thanks! Ya keep her outta trouble. Oh! And if ya've got words of wisdom you wanna share,We'll dish 'em up, too.


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I like this boy and he acts like he likes me back, but he won't ask me out. Please help!
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How Do You Ask Out a Hottie?

  • I walk right up and ask 'em out.
  • I get a friend to ask them out for me.
  • I casually ask if they want to see a movie some time.
  • I would never ask someone out!

Dear Dish-It In The Forums

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Quoting Rick Sanchez, "Listen Morty, I hate to break it to you, but what people call 'love' is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, Morty, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle, Morty. Rise above. Focus on science." Applies to pretty much everyone. Change "focus on science" to whatever else truly fulfills you in life. Not trying to be a pessimist here, just a realist. When you give up on looking for a relationship, you free yourself from so many worries/problems, it's incredible. Seriously. Take the advice from a guy who's not going to be divorced, paying child support in thirty years. The same guy who doesn't worry about what his partner (or potential partner) thinks of him, which appears to be a big problem for you right now. You're an interesting person who has desires and dreams, and the opportunity to make them a reality. Focus on your real interests, forget the boy drama. Just my advice.
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Error44
Go for him, make a nice situation to understand what he feels about you, if he loves you and you are sure about him so go for him and dont lose him . Though I think such a friendship for you is too soon and it will be broken but it is worth trying .Soory, if I speak frankly , it is just my opinion nothing more.
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Kirsteeeeen
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Isabellax
@nrfvltmrdftw06  :p :p
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nrfrvltmrdftw06
 @isabellax same
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