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Dear Dish-It: My Mom Embarrasses Me

Dear Dish-it,


My mom is so embarrassing. She thinks she can do whatever she wants in front of me. We were waiting in line for the bathroom and her fave song was on so she started singing out loud. Everybody was staring at me! I want to tell her but I don't want to hurt her feelings. What should I say or do?


crazzy123


Dear crazzy123,


Nearly every kid goes through a period in their life when they're insecure about their parents. But trust me, it's not as bad as you're imagining!


For example, everyone in that bathroom lineup, I bet, could relate to having a parent that says or does something embarrassing. And that's a reflection on your mom, not on you! Plus, while you can't change what other people think of you or your mom, and you may not be able to change the way your mom acts (although you can talk to her about your feelings, and see if she's willing to tone things down in public), you CAN change the way you think about things. And changing the way you think actually changes the way you feel. So, instead of feeling embarrassed, try feeling grateful that your mom takes the time to do stuff with you, or that she's fun and silly and comfortable expressing herself, when so many adults aren't! In other words: think about why you love your mom, rather than what other people think of her. It sounds like she's got a great sense of humor, and it seems like she's the kind of mom who's there for you when you need her. Focus on the good stuff about her!


If for some reason you find yourself in other situation where someone actually makes fun of you because of something your mom does, which I really don't think would happen, then stand up for yourself and your mom. Calmly and confidently say back, "I'm sorry you feel that way but she's my mom and I love her." People will respect you for standing up for yourself and your mom.


If you show that you're confident and secure, everyone will treat you (and your mom!) with the respect that you deserve. So, go out there and have fun with your mom, and appreciate the great times you and she have together!


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Most Embarrassing Scenario?

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JazzyRox
so i have a crush on a kid that goes to my school, and i want to know if he likes me without asking him or telling him i like him. in my opinion i am WAYYYYY to young to date, and i don't want to start any time soon, i just want to know if he has a crush on me.  please give me some advise or something on how to tell if your crush likes you. and i know that there are loads of youtube videos about this, but i guess i want it to be directly to me, idk.  please help  ~ JazzyRox
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"country_girl19" wrote:Dear Dish-it,                         Me and my friend just started talking again, and it seems like she regrets it. She'll leave me for the people she has only known for a couple of months, when I've been friends with her for a year. Also, she gets annoyed with me, and I don't know what to do. As much as we like to be besides our good friends, we also need our alone time and personal space. Don't think that she's regretting her friendship with you because I'm sure you guys share some precious memories together. Maybe she just wants her own space for a while and making new friends is her way of finding herself. Just give her some time.
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drowning posted in Friends:
@country_girl19, I agree with Athena. She might not realize how she's making you feel and it's best to talk to her about it, if not it could get worse. If nothing changes after talking with her, then I think you should rethink things. @WatermelonCurlz, I don't really think you should hang around them that much. They don't listen to you or seem to really care about the fact that you've talked about getting different friends. I'm not saying to just cut them off all together, but I wouldn't stray from the idea of slowly distancing yourself.
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JazzyRox
JazzyRox posted in Friends:
"WatermelonCurlz" wrote:OMG! OK so, I have a group to 3 friends (not including me) and they love this video game that I'm not allowed to play. And they know that, so they talk about it purposely around me. Omg, ikr.When I ask to talk about something else the ignore me. So I say, I'm going to go find real friends, and they say, OK, like me care. And that's all they want to talk about, at recess, lunch, secretly in class, you name it thye do it. How do I get them to stop?   You should probably just stop talking to them and stuff. don't sit by them at lunch and don't hang out with them at recess. they sound like they are not good friends. if it gets worse, just tell your parents if they don't already know. idk how good i am at advise. hope this helped.  ~JazzyRox
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WatermelonCurlz
OMG!OK so, I have a group to 3 friends (not including me) and they love this video game that I'm not allowed to play. And they know that, so they talk about it purposely around me. Omg, ikr.When I ask to talk about something else the ignore me. So I say, I'm going to go find real friends, and they say, OK, like me care. And that's all they want to talk about, at recess, lunch, secretly in class, you name it thye do it. How do I get them to stop?
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