Dear Dish-It, Who Do I Choose?
Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".
What's up? Well, I'm kinda stuck in a bad situation here and thought any advice could help, so I decided to write you. I'm usually the one giving the advice, but now it's about time to receive some. I'm stuck between two boys and I don't know what to do. Both of them are like "in love" with me, both of them treat me right. I just don't know what to do. I hang out with one of 'em in school all the time, and the other hates it - and visa versa if I hang out with the other one. But I think I like both of them. Please help me! What should I do???
It's hard to help you choose which guy is best for you when I don't really know much about either one, except that they "love you". What I can tell you is that you most definitely need to choose one or the other. You can't continue to lead both of them on, cuz that's not fair to anyone. I know that it can be pretty cool to be the object of more than one person's affection, but don't let it go to your head. You seem to enjoy hangin' with both of these guys, so show 'em a little respect and make your decision. Which one would you rather date? Which one do you see yourself calling your boyfriend? In the end, one will probably be hurt. But, if they truly treasure you as their friend, they will eventually understand and respect your decision. Love is a tricky business and unfortunately sometimes hearts will be broken. Just follow your own heart and you'll make the right decision.
So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .