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Dear Dish-It, Should I Date Him Behind My Mom's Back?

Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".

Dear Dish-It,

I got into some trouble at school and my mom said I can't go out with my boyfriend anymore. I really love him and still want to go out with him though! If I do go out with him BEHIND my mom's back, he might call my house and she'll find out! So what should I do?
sexcie_momma


Dear sexcie_momma,

You should stop seeing this guy - at least for a little while. Wait until your mom cools down (maybe like a couple of weeks or something) and then approach her about it. Tell her you still have feelings for your boyfriend and would like to see him again. But, my real concern here is what kind of trouble did you get in at school? Was this guy the cause of it? Cuz if he was the reason you got into trouble at school, your mom is right and you should stay away from him. He may be a hottie, but hotties who are worth your time don't get you busted and grounded.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to here. But 'member, if ya hang out in Chat with other Kidzworld members who know ya by your 'username', ya might wanna use a secret nickname when ya write in. That way no one'll ever know it's you. And, just in case ya don't know, Dish-It gets a lotta letters everyday, and she can't answer 'em all. So keep checkin' the column cuz she's prob'ly answerin' somethin' very similar to your question while you're out doin' somethin' else. K? And Thanks! Ya keep her outta trouble. Oh! And if ya've got words of wisdom you wanna share,We'll dish 'em up, too.


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Tati-00 posted in Family Issues:
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american_brit
"Tati-00" wrote:I would tell your mother no. I mean she shouldn't be like a dictator and force it on you. I hardly wear any make-up and my mom loves that.
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Tati-00 posted in Family Issues:
I would tell your mother No. I mean she shouldn't be like a dictator and force it on you. I hardly wear any make-up and my mom loves that.
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