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Dear Dish-It, I'm in Love With a Goth

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Dear Dish-It,

Hey, I have so much to say and nobody will listen. I like a gothic guy but I'm a prep and I know it's really rude not to want any one to know but I worked hard on my rep. I try to talk to my parents but they don't agree with his rebellious ways! What can I do? I don't even know if he likes me. I'm scared of putting myself out there, just to get knocked off.
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Dear ocean_eyes,

I have to admit that I feel pretty bad for the guy you are crushing on. You say you really like him but you're embarrassed to tell anyone cuz you're afraid of ruining your reputation. How do you think that would make him feel? Nobody wants to be someone else's dirty little secret. Either you like this boy or you don't. Chances are you like him because he's a bit rebellious and goth - so why would you be embarrassed to let peeps know that? If your friends are going to judge you because of who you choose to date, then they're probably not worth having as friends. Talk to this guy if you are interested - but don't expect him to carry on some secret relationship behind closed doors so that you can continue to be popular and rebellious all at the same time.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    hinamoriamu

    hinamoriamu wrote:

    awesome and into anime and I kind of just like Japanese people in general mostly because I find the Japanese girls really pretty and I just find them cool but I also like goths because their awesome and I feel bad for them because they have had such a hard life and everybody always makes fun of them
    commented: Sat Dec 13, 2014

    hinamoriamu

    hinamoriamu wrote:

    little understanding of what their going through plus since I'm shy not a lot of people talk to me at school so I don't have a lot of friends and I will tell you this right now I don't personally know any goth people but omg I've looked at my pictures before of goth girls and they are liked the most prettiest girls I've ever seen I love their hair too and I like a lot of stuff with skulls desighns on it and I think the clothes that they were is really cool So I like Japanese people because their
    commented: Sat Dec 13, 2014

    hinamoriamu

    hinamoriamu wrote:

    ikr ILY Tanya ILY I've always thought that about goth guys but sadly there isn't any goth boys or girls at my school because if there was I would totally be friends with them the second I seem them lol And ever since an incident happend to me at my old school in 4th grade that I don't even want to talk about I've been shy ever since and It's also did to my dad too because he's a jerk and I'm always afaird to talk when he's around or even just to be around him when he's here so I have at least a
    commented: Sat Dec 13, 2014

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