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Dear Dish-It, We Used to Be Friends, Now She's Mean

Dish-It serves up advice about the breakup of friendships.
Advice About Friends

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Dear Dish-It,

Hi, I was wondering if you could help me. I used to be very good friends with this girl, but now she is all mean to me because she has better and more "popular" friends. Does she hate me or is she just pretending?
Gurlprincess21


Dear Gurlprincess21,

Sorry to hear about your lost friend, but try not to take it personally. Some people just grow apart as they grow up. I doubt that she hates you, even though she is being mean and totally uncool. As for the "popular" thing: popularity isn't everything and people who think it is are the real losers. Give it time and maybe you guys will reconnect. If not, don't lose sleep over it cuz someone who is mean to you and doesn't treat you well isn't worth your time and effort. Remember that your friendship is valuable even if she doesn't get it.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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abbycooldool65
get over her butt trust me u will met people just like her. u dont need her she needs u...
commented: Sat Apr 21, 2012

Uhmazzin

Uhmazzin wrote:

I think she is just pretending because she wants to fit in with the crowd.
commented: Sat Mar 24, 2012

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"lila36" wrote:hi, if you are new here checkout all the contest, chat room ( really fun ) and also you ask dear dish it any question or you can read questions and answers.  you can post things and go to every thing like health and school sport and also other articles. i hope this helped you. please reply!! Uh... What does that have to do with anything about this forum. 
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hi, if you are new here checkout all the contest, chat room ( really fun ) and also you ask dear dish it any question or you can read questions and answers.  you can post things and go to every thing like health and school sport and also other articles. i hope this helped you. please reply!!
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Hey it's their choice! I am older and I have a gorgeous boyf, but I wouldn't call him my soul mate!
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