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Dear Dish-It, We Used to Be Friends, Now She's Mean


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

Hi, I was wondering if you could help me. I used to be very good friends with this girl, but now she is all mean to me because she has better and more "popular" friends. Does she hate me or is she just pretending?
Gurlprincess21


Dear Gurlprincess21,

Sorry to hear about your lost friend, but try not to take it personally. Some people just grow apart as they grow up. I doubt that she hates you, even though she is being mean and totally uncool. As for the "popular" thing: popularity isn't everything and people who think it is are the real losers. Give it time and maybe you guys will reconnect. If not, don't lose sleep over it cuz someone who is mean to you and doesn't treat you well isn't worth your time and effort. Remember that your friendship is valuable even if she doesn't get it.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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Tell someone you trust, a friend, family member, teacher consular. Anyone, they'll be able to help you.
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"Dis_Chino" wrote:if your mom is overprotective then she really cares about you. when i was 11 i wanted to do things by myself but now that i look back, i was still kinda like a little kid, just listen to her, we cant get everything we want all at once
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some people pick up names fast ( im one of those peeps) he probably heard a teacher or student say your name .
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You'll never know until you ask.But normally if a guy is smitten you'll know. Just ask him, maybe you'll be surprised on what he says. :)
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