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Dear Dish-It, We Used to Be Friends, Now She's Mean

Dish-It serves up advice about the breakup of friendships.
Advice About Friends

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Dear Dish-It,

Hi, I was wondering if you could help me. I used to be very good friends with this girl, but now she is all mean to me because she has better and more "popular" friends. Does she hate me or is she just pretending?
Gurlprincess21


Dear Gurlprincess21,

Sorry to hear about your lost friend, but try not to take it personally. Some people just grow apart as they grow up. I doubt that she hates you, even though she is being mean and totally uncool. As for the "popular" thing: popularity isn't everything and people who think it is are the real losers. Give it time and maybe you guys will reconnect. If not, don't lose sleep over it cuz someone who is mean to you and doesn't treat you well isn't worth your time and effort. Remember that your friendship is valuable even if she doesn't get it.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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abbycooldool65
get over her butt trust me u will met people just like her. u dont need her she needs u...
commented: Sat Apr 21, 2012

Uhmazzin

Uhmazzin wrote:

I think she is just pretending because she wants to fit in with the crowd.
commented: Sat Mar 24, 2012

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I have a friend by the name of Corey....he is awesome,funny,cute and very friendly....and also heartbroken, and i don't think he deserves any of this.....if you go to his profile and read his bio"livininthesouth" all the negatives you read there is not true......he is just having a hard time in life." whispers" the guy need a girl"
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seraphine10
I was born in New Zealand and when I was 7 there were heaps of earthquakes which traumourtised me. We moved to another country and my mum is forcing me to go back for a holiday and I really really really don't want to. I don't know what to do
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CarnivalDay
"Kirsteeeeen" wrote:I think you should go. It might be difficult but you never know. You might find something to talk about with his fiance and find a way to talk to her! Or you could be more social with other family. The only way to beat being unsocial in big groups is to put yourself into the situation and learn. You could actually have a great time :)Just relax, be yourself. Ask questions. People love to talk about themselves so ask lots. It'll keep conversation going and you'll learn about possible later conversation topics. Also smile and be friendly. Make small talk. Remember you're there to celebrate a happy time in someone's life. You might not like it but it's their big day, one of the biggest in their life. And your dad and sister are going so you could always stick around them if socializing doesn't work. Sorry for late reply! ^-^ Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it. Problem is, only my sister has anything to wear and my dad is fretting over something that will match, but I think that was just sorted out. I'm picky over what to wear and I'm not aloud to wear boots or leggings, which I practically live in. Though I'm probably only going to stay for a few hours since the dog's not able to go to the kennel right now. 
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