Dear Dish-It, We Used to Be Friends, Now She's Mean
Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".
Hi, I was wondering if you could help me. I used to be very good friends with this girl, but now she is all mean to me because she has better and more "popular" friends. Does she hate me or is she just pretending?
Sorry to hear about your lost friend, but try not to take it personally. Some people just grow apart as they grow up. I doubt that she hates you, even though she is being mean and totally uncool. As for the "popular" thing: popularity isn't everything and people who think it is are the real losers. Give it time and maybe you guys will reconnect. If not, don't lose sleep over it cuz someone who is mean to you and doesn't treat you well isn't worth your time and effort. Remember that your friendship is valuable even if she doesn't get it.
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